I guess I owe you a "no"

The following strategy is a great one to use when you're trying to avoid getting into a power struggle with your child when enforcing limits. It still allows you to be able to respond to there misbehavior, but at a later time. It goes something like this:

Parent: "Susie, I need you to clean up your room."

Susie: "I'll do it later"

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